Long Hot Summer

Phew what a scorcher! It’s official, the hottest and driest Summer since the drought of 1976, which as we are old folk, we remember well. The croquet lawn has been like the Serengeti, and most plants are either droopy or crispy but as we head into the Bank Holiday the heavens are finally opening. It’s been great weather for ice cream!

Gimme all your…..frites!

Neil had the idea that Brussels would be a good place to spend a couple of days.  He went there a lot on business and the last time we were there was for his 50th birthday…..which was quite some time ago…………..  There was another reason and that was to see some live music from one of the all time greats, ZZ Top.  Travel times we’re difficult to fit in with our other ‘stuff’ so we used Avios to fly out with BA and used Eurostar to come back by train.

We did our bits of sightseeing and, as it would be rude not to, trying out a few Belgian Beers.

The venue for ZZ Top was Forest National which was fairly easy to get to by tram and a gentle walk through the suburbs. We planned to have some food before but the place we booked turned out to be a bit of a dud and we eventually found ourselves outside the stadium with hundreds of other ZZ fans drinking beer and eating surprisingly good pizza.

Once we got into the stadium, we realised that we didn’t have allocated seating, just seats in a zone which turned out to be fine, however, once the warm up band came on we quickly realised that the sound was poor and we couldn’t really hear her singing.  By then it was clear that the air handling system wasn’t even poor, it was dreadful.  Neil was leaking profusely but that brought a cloud with a silver lining – lots of beer.  To be fair, we were in the middle of an unprecedented European heatwave. Then the band came on and the sound system continued to disappoint but they gave a great performance.

On our last evening we met up with Andrea from our wine group and Twinning Association.  She spent around 20 years living and working in Brussels and happened to be visiting friends at the same time.  All those years ago we thought we had found the bars to be ‘discovered’ but Andrea and her long-time friend and husband took us to some very unassuming bars as well as old favourites that had a great history and décor.  Thank you very much.

Well, all in, we had a great weekend, superb weather, good sightseeing, copious amounts of different beers, moule and frites by the bucket load, great company and we did see a legendary band before they all meet their maker.

Sun Sun Sun

Time for visits from old friends Ian from our Couch Surfing days and Chris & Viv our friends from Sydney. Great days out on the tram and walking the coast paths.

Birthday Boy

August is that special time for Neil and this year we decided to get away, taking flights which we said we would never do in August.  We booked a river cruise with Saga, aggghhh yes we know, Saga, wheelchairs and zimmers!  We can’t be old enough, we hear you say! Well, we’re a long way past 50, and the walking holiday we did with them was great so thought that we would give it a go. If it turned out to be a disaster, it is fully inclusive so we could just spend the cruise in the bar annoying all the wrinklies. 

However, as we were having an unprecedentedly hot and dry summer, we anticipated our cruise may be cancelled or amended and we got a call a few days before departure.  Instead, of going west to east on The Moselle and The Rhine we were offered a week on the River Main. Our options were cancel and get a refund or accept the changes with a 20% discount. The compromise was that as the changes were last minute the excursions were limited to mainly city walks with guides.

Day 1 – Fly to Frankfurt & Transfer to Werzberg to board the boat. What we didn’t expect was the rave at the quayside venue directly opposite the boat – we joined in from the deck!

Day 2 Visit to The Residence Palace & City Tour – here we had a young and extremely funny German guide who educated us on German sayings, and about Bridching – drinking wine on the old stone bridge and judging passers by.

It was also the Big Day with dinner in the speciality restaurant. Yes – he had to wear the banner all day!

Day 3 – Wertheim, a small picturesque town with another excellent guide with many tales of his life in the town.

Day 4 – Morning visit to Mespelbrun a small castle in the forest. This was a new excursion for SAGA and hopefully won’t become part of their normal itinerary. It was a rainy day and the interior was gloomy and depressing. Rooms full of weapons, sad looking family portraits, hunting pictures of animals being ripped apart by dogs and a creepy room with black walls, plates and samurai warriors which would have been an ideal set for an episode of The Traitors. Luckily for you we were not allowed to photograph the interior.

Day 5 Miltenburg – back to Hansel & Gretel architecture. Another hilarious guide who filled us in on what we needed to know about Bavaria and Wallonians, and the rules of German gossip. A beautiful town tour and castle ruins.

Day 6 Aschaffenberg – Much larger town and this time a very dull guide.

Scenic cruising on the way to Frankfurt

Day 7 – Frankfurt. Great mooring right in the heart of town and another fun guide for a morning city tour. The old town was fascinating as most of it was bombed out and has been rebuilt and restored to create a new ‘old town’.

Overall we had a great time. The ship was only a year old and beautifully appointed, the food was exceptional and the evening entertainment was much better than expected.

Once we had ‘negotiated’ what was and was not fully inclusive on the drinks package we had several party nights.  We also drifted towards a great social group and all we can say is that it was good that nobody was driving on the morning we left the boat!

Back to The Future

Back home we had a couple of days to prepare for Neil’s surgery on the issue with his back.  It’s weird, he can walk for the world, we love to dance but there is one of his favourite pastimes that he is struggling with – standing at the bar, or anywhere else for that matter.  Standing or just shuffling along is a recipe for pain.

He had decompressions on vertebrae 3,4 and 5 plus a fusion of 4 and 5. It’s less than a week and he still has the staples (stitches) which will be removed in 5 days.  He’s finding it tough; the pain is light but constant and the meds are giving him heavy sweats at night.  We just hope that it will be pain and gain – not an experience to be relived.

Sadly, we must report that Neil’s brother Bill had a stroke a few weeks ago.  He is making good progress and is waiting to get into a specialist stroke rehab centre rather than an NHS hospital.  On the bright side, he hasn’t lost his wicked sense of humour which does seem to get him into trouble sometimes with the staff.

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Take a chance on me

Here’s the latest roundup of what we’ve been up to, and guess what? Yet another trip, which this time wasn’t one we had planned, but was an offer we couldn’t refuse. 

Andy, our cruise guru, messaged out to all his customers to say that he had booked a cruise for himself which he now couldn’t make due to a training course that his wife wanted to go on.  We saw the WhatsApp message and Neil said ‘that’s good value – is that for 1 or 2 people?’  It was for 2 so Neil said ‘just grab it’ as he rubbed his hands together.  It was never in the schedule but the opportunity to get some Autumn sun and visit Lisbon & Valencia amongst other places we had never been was just too big an opportunity to miss.

There were just a couple of negatives but we went for it anyway.  It was P&O, which we had previously decided not to use again, and it was a huge ship, The Iona, which holds 5200 people.  On the plus side it was from Southampton and it was a new ship.  It was also October so probably wouldn’t be full, and at two weeks long, unlikely to be packed with kids. We cruised at the same time last year and it really felt like the summer had been extended so with the disappointing weather this summer who wouldn’t want some last minute sunshine?

Boarding was swift and our cabin décor was fresh and modern and we were on Deck 15 so certain to get plenty of exercise using the stairs!  We explored the ship and really liked the enclosed dome area on the upper decks where some circus style entertainment would take place over the pool area on some evenings, and the large and airy atrium and generally the fact that everything looked shiny and new. 

The weather was a little grey as set sail later that afternoon.  There was an announcement from El Capitano to say that storm Kirk was on it’s way and that he intended to miss our first port of call, La Coruna, and just head south at great speed to avoid the storm.  That meant an extra sea day but at least it was smooth sailing.   It wasn’t the weather for the sun worshippers to toast themselves so the public areas were packed – and that’s when we realised there were a lot of school age kids on board as well.  Scotland have different school hols, they had two weeks and the ship was at full capacity – ugh.  Another surprise was that on such a huge ship you had to use an app to book into the big shows in the theatre, the special shows in a really tiny venue, the main dining room and any speciality dining – and some people had done this before they boarded so most things were full up – more ugh.

Hey ho – as you know, regular readers, we are resourceful and soon discovered that we could rock up to the main restaurants (choice of 4) without a booking, agree to sharing a table and we were straight in.  Same with shows – hover outside and ten minutes before the start if there were seats, and there always were, we could get in.  We found some quieter spots, got chatty with the bar staff enjoyed the excellent wines in The Glasshouse and generally settled in despite the chaos and noise all around.

Our first port of call was Vigo in Spain – not a hugely exciting place but we enjoyed a stroll around the town.

Another sea day – with not a lot to do and then to Lisbon in Portugal where the ship stayed two days. We really enjoyed Lisbon, and have decided to go back there, probably next year.

We tried to get on the historical tram 28 but the queue was huge so wandered around and eventually stumbled upon a strange doorway with a small queue inside – a near vertical tram and we took a ride.

We arrived in the early hours so didn’t realise what a scenic ride the sail away from Lisbon was going to be. It was really picturesque as we left the cruise dock and headed towards the sea taking in the amazing views of the town. We got to an enormous bridge but as we got closer it was apparent there wasn’t going to be much room left as we passed

Hola Amigos

The weather wasn’t kind as we left which was a pity but as we sailed into the Mediterranean it warmed up.  Our next port of call was Valencia.  We had previously arranged to meet old friends Clive and Karen who live about 2hrs away.  We had an excellent lunch, a drink or two, and lots of laughs.  Clive reminded Neil that they have been friends now for over sixty years, and they are still as daft as the day they met!  Great to see them and now we’re looking forward to visiting them again in  2025.  Valencia, by the way, was lovely and we’ll be back there next year as we fly there for a few nights before meeting up with C&K.

Next stop was Barcelona where we last visited more than 20 years ago.  The Gaudi Cathedral is still ongoing and probably will still be ongoing in another 20 years.  It is one of the weirdest things we have seen and we were keen to find so were some of the other Gaudi buildings.  Cheryl plotted a route back to the ship via a number of buildings that were Gaudi inspired.  Whatever he was smoking we’d like some!

There was one major surprise that we didn’t know about until we got on board.  Gary Barlow has been working with P&O cruises, particularly with creative input into some of the entertainment venues on the newer ships.  He was going to join the ship in Lisbon to put on a couple of shows, but entry was by ticket only and to get a ticket you needed to donate £10 to his two favourite children’s charities and you would be in a raffle.  Lucky is Neil’s middle name so of course we won tickets, and the charities got a huge £27,000.  Cheryl really enjoyed the music and the show but Neil, who is not a big fan of his music, had to admit that the show was superb.  How about that, Gary Barlow for a tenner a ticket!

Last stop was Cadiz which we visited last year.  A really pleasant town and we enjoyed a long walk following the old city walls and then exploring the charming old town.

A couple more sea days – again with miserable weather, and we were back in Southampton.  There were quite a few things we didn’t enjoy about the holiday, but there were many positives – Lisbon, Valencia with C&K, Barcelona, Gary Barlow, the excellent wines and Ryan North the  pianist in The Crow’s Nest who played some perfect late night cocktail music whilst we sipped all sorts! Another bonus was we decided to take the upgrade on the travel insurance to cover missed ports as it only cost £13 and got £300 back in our bank account on our return- woo hoo!

Mundane stuff took over on our return, flu/covid jab for Neil plus typhoid and Hep A for both of us, dentist, garden, chimneys taking shape and so it goes on.  We did front of house at The Gateway, Bar work for the Riviera Dogs gig night, and we had the first Comedy Club night which was a great success.  The next one in 3 months is already nearly sold out.

Spot the difference? There’s definitely at least six for the eagle eyed, not including seasonal differences as the first picture was taken during the viewing in April 2019 and the second in November 2024

Celebrations

Cheryl spent a few days in London to celebrate Son Alex’s birthday and spend time with the boys.  Great day out at Kew Gardens, fabulous lunch on the Thames followed by using the really fast River Bus for the first time.  Cheryl and Alex also had an evening learning the basics of Thai cooking at Borough Kitchen – it was delicious.

While she was away, Neil decided to tackle the redecorating in the big bedrooms to cover up the water damage from the leaking chimneys.

Our regular lunch with Neil’s siblings and spouses, June, Roy, Bill and Sue took place at a new venue, The Village Inn at Liddington near Swindon.  It’s a pleasant enough venue, food was OK but the company was great.  Due to holiday schedules, and Christmas, it’s looking likely that April will be the next date.

You may remember that Neil managed to spin out his 70th birthday celebration for several months so he could fit in all his friends and family?  Not to be outdone, and as she has a special birthday coming up, Cheryl decided to start hers during her visit to London then continued with a special dinner with Marlpit Lane Social Club.  Chef Dariusz arrived to work his magic and produced a spectacular 3 course meal.  He left and we continued with a cheese course and more wine and chat with the party finally ending after midnight.

The big day is actually at the end of November and there is something really special planned.  You will have to wait for the next update to find out what it is!